What are the 4 dramas?

What are the 4 dramas?

Our hero learns of the Control Dramas in the 4th chapter of the Celestine Prophecy. There are four Dramas: (1) the Intimidator, (2) the Interrogator, (3) the Aloof, and (4) the Poor Me.

How many control dramas are there?

four control dramas
There are four control dramas, as mentioned in Redfield’s series. They range from aggressive to passive, and we’ll discuss how to identify and even transform them shortly. The four control dramas include the Intimidator, Interrogator, Aloof, and Poor Me. The idea is to be aware of these ego traps and overcome them.

What is the aloof control drama?

Aloof – this control drama avoids commitment, can’t be pinned down, avoids details, keeps everyone wondering what is going on, communicates very little to keep others in the dark—often because they want to keep all their options open.

What is interrogator behavior?

Interrogator. They make people feel like they’re under close observation and let others know that they do not meet their standards. Interrogators’ big fear is that if they are not present, the job won’t be done properly. “They cast people into the role of being inadequate,” said Janati, a self-described Interrogator.

How do you overcome control dramas?

Also, note that these suggestions focus primarily around changing your perceptions of the relationship rather than trying to change the behavior of the other person.

1. Use the S.T.O.P. Model to Avoid Reactivity.
2. See Through the Control Drama the Other Person Is Using.
3. Don’t Take it Personally.
4. Practice Defenselessness.

How do you know if you have aloof behavior?

Aloof – The quiet ones who draw you in by being vague, mysterious, even secretive forcing you to expend energy to try and understand them. The effort here is for the attention to be solely focused on them. You might be in the relationship, but only one person is benefitting.

How do you respond to a control drama?

How can you protect yourself from control dramas?

6 steps to protect yourself from drama

1. Don’t Personalize Their Behavior. We think people cause our sorrow. Not so.
2. Create Boundaries. Don’t turn away from the discomfort that difficult people bring to your life.
3. Don’t Neglect the Good People. Your relationships aren’t one sided.

How do you respond to poor me control drama?

Whenever a Control Drama is occurring, it is always a reminder to reconnect with the Source of Divine Love. Stop, relax and know that some problems are not yours to fix. Fill your heart with as much love and energy as you can. Continue to hold that connection, no matter what your friend is doing or not doing.

How do you disengage from drama?

Here are 10 tips to Practice Disengaging from others drama:

1. Be selfish with YOUR energy.
2. Walking away can be a power pose.
3. Live for you, not someone else.
4. Be where your feet are.
5. Get rid of toxic relationships.
6. Mind your own business.
7. Know your limits.
8. Be comfortable saying “no”

How do you deal with control drama?

How do I stop the poor me control drama?

3 Ways to Stop The Poor Me Control Drama

1. Step 1: Acknowledge the Poor Me. The first step to getting out of this mindset is to recognize and acknowledge where we are.
2. Step 2: Acknowledge and Name the Feelings. Then, as I realize I’m heading into Poor Me, the next step is to acknowledge my feelings.

What is the function of drama?

The roles of drama ranges from instructive, educative, informative, entertaining, therapeutic, social and cultural to religious and political experiences. It enables us to learn about ourselves, our society and about life in general.

What is a control drama in marriage?

Sometimes, one party becomes dominant, resulting in one feeding off of the energy of the other. Control dramas are first mentioned in James Redfield’s The Celestine Prophecy. In this book, it is stated that control dramas are the means for people to get energy from their partners.

How do your control dramas work?

Your Control Dramas are unhelpful behavioural programmes that require you to reprogramme your behaviour. The easiest way to change behaviour is to rewire your neural circuitry that changes thinking and mindset. The most powerful way to do this is by combining positive affirmations with binaural beat technology.

What does “staying out of control dramas” mean?

If you have read the Celestine Prophecy, then you know that “Staying out of CONTROL DRAMAS” is essential to becoming more Conscious and being able to create the life you want. Remember, THE CELESTINE PROPHECY reveals 9 of 12 truths about how the world “really” works and how humanity is destined to come into alignment […]

What are the control dramas in the Celestine Prophecy?

The Celestine Prophecy’s 4 Control Dramas The sixth insight states that childhood dramas block our ability to fully experience the mystical. All humans, because of their upbringing, tend toward one of the four “control dramas”: intimidators steal energy from others by threat.